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Deborah Lukovich
Jun 19, 20216 min read
The End is Coming . . . of Patriarchy!
Something is beginning to take shape – within me and outside of me. I began to feel the change happening deep inside, during my midlife...
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Deborah Lukovich
May 4, 202110 min read
My Children Pushed Me Out of the Nest
A couple weeks ago, I had a mini freak out. It was coming up on a year since I had left my old self and life behind. The unraveling of my...
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Deborah Lukovich
Apr 4, 20218 min read
How to Make Menopause Your Best Friend - For Men Too!
Do you even know what menopause means? I had to go to three different websites to get clear on how the medical community defines the...
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Deborah Lukovich
Mar 18, 20219 min read
A One Night Stand with Shame
Before I get to the topic of this post, I want to reflect out loud about what I’m going for with my blog. I think I’m finding my voice –...
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Deborah Lukovich
Mar 2, 20216 min read
It Ain't Easy Being a Man Either
Beneath the Surface “I need some Deb time,” the text said. It was my friend Alex. “LOL. It’s a date,” I texted back. We had been having...
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Deborah Lukovich
Jan 24, 20217 min read
I Didn’t Become a Romantic Until I Got Divorced: Midlife Reflections
Did you come of age in the 1980s? What kinds of messages did you internalize having to do with gender roles? Have you thought about how...
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Deborah Lukovich
Jan 2, 20217 min read
Vacuum Cleaners and Ex-Husbands: Life Lessons
Finding meaning in and reflecting about the mundane equals breathing for me. You can imagine that I might go a little crazy during the...
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Deborah Lukovich
Dec 14, 20207 min read
My Sneaky Psyche: The Black Panther and My Spiritual Path
Oh no! It’s been so long since I’ve written. I've been busy completing the second draft of my memoir, which is due December 22nd. Yikes!...
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Deborah Lukovich
Oct 20, 20208 min read
The Hidden Meaning of the Film Aquaman
What? This is the Book of Revelation! I whispered during one of the six viewings of the film Aquaman. A Little Context During this phase...
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Deborah Lukovich
Sep 20, 20206 min read
My Conversation With a Hummingbird
Are there signs that you’ve ignored, or even dismissed, because they would disrupt your safe but maybe not quite fulfilling life? Have...
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Deborah Lukovich
Sep 7, 20202 min read
Why Do You Read What You Read?
I’ve always been a voracious reader, preferring hard cover books over paperback or digital, and marking them up with my own cryptic code....
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Deborah Lukovich
May 1, 202011 min read
The Evolving Relationship Between a Mom and Her Children
Once again, I feel grateful to have the opportunity to be interviewed by another inspiring woman. Faiza Sheikh-Mian, LCSW, LCADC, CYT, is...
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Deborah Lukovich
May 27, 20194 min read
Nonviolent Resistance: A Modern Application
Every Moment is an Opportunity I was in a bar . . . No really. This bar is one of those Cheers bars – the servers sometimes wear T-shirts...
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Deborah Lukovich
Apr 15, 20196 min read
Men and Women – Healing and Reconciliation Starts with Self Awareness
I promised Part 2 to my last post Men Are NOT the Enemy. In my last post I talked about coming out with my new passion at the Alverno...
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Deborah Lukovich
Apr 2, 20196 min read
Men Are NOT the Enemy
Healing the Collective Wounds that Prevent Deep Connection Between Men and Women I came out last Friday! Not in the way you think. Over...
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Deborah Lukovich
Mar 14, 20196 min read
Should I Stay or Leave My Job?
Are You Feeling Stuck in Your Current Job? The good news is feeling stuck means you’re not in survival mode – remember Maslow’s Hierarchy...
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Deborah Lukovich
Jan 28, 20194 min read
Aquaman and Mid-Life
Finding Meaning in Film Can be Empowering What could the most recent super hero movie Aquaman possibly have to do with mid-life? People...
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Deborah Lukovich
Jan 9, 20194 min read
Marriage: It's an Art, Not a Science
Rational Thinking Goes Out the Window When it Comes to Relationships Do you and your partner fight about the same thing over and over?...
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Deborah Lukovich
Dec 10, 20181 min read
Daily Dose of Depth #1 - Reflection About Wisdom
One day I just felt inspired thinking about how wisdom is not something we possess but something we can receive if we're open. This made...
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Deborah Lukovich
Oct 15, 20184 min read
Why Did I Dream THAT?!
I Had this Dream . . . Myths About Dream Interpretation People seem to perk up when they talk about their dreams, perhaps because there...
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